Now that I have been blogging for a year, I decided to try and analyse what I do well and what – not so much (in my post from last Friday, “My Blog is One Year Old”). I established that what I have succeeded in is connecting with tall people and their admirers, while more could be done about my connections with readers not that interested in the “tall” topic. In other words, with the “normal” blogging world. This did make me feel, frankly, a bit useless, so I swore to myself to make more efforts to publish “proper” posts that more people can relate to – regardless of their height. This is why I started writing the blog in the first place: to prove that there is more to tall people than, huh, being tall. And I thought I did that well. Or so my stats showed, as well as fellow bloggers’ engagement.
Which is where I hit a brick wall. I appear to have got it all wrong. Or so it seems, judging by basic SEO rules I only recently learnt about.
Apparently, for a blog to rank well in terms of search engines magic, it has got to be focused around one thing. One topic. In my case, that would be “being tall”. This is what can make it successful. And, let’s be honest, we all have those secret dreams of doing so well on our blogs that we will one day quit our day job and make a decent living from writing/working for the blog. We all know examples of power bloggers who have made millions this way, and we (or I!) would love to be in their shoes.
Right. Dream on. Until someone explains to you how SEO works.
A friend of mine, web designer and SEO magician, explained to me that I need to analyse the contents of my blog. Decide what my key words are, throw them around generously, spread the seed, so to speak, and wait for the harvest.
Piece of cake, I thought. Until he also told me that to rank well and be successful, I need to focus on my tall section. Which is where I sulked. Yes, by far, my stats show that this is indeed the most commercial aspect of my blog. When I publish a post about tall fashion, or, for that matter, anything directly related to hot topics for the tall community, my stats go bonkers. Seriously. 335 hits in a day just because I compared jeans from three fashion brands? Mind boggled. To me, this is a record I doubt I will improve anytime soon.
Don’t get me wrong. I do enjoy (a lot!) my “tall” posts, engaging with other tall (fashion) bloggers and tall fashion brands. This could well be the future of my blog, as far as my ambitions are concerned: to go self-hosted and become self-sufficient one sunny day. But is this all I want?
Those who do follow my blog will know the answer to this question. It is in the very title of my blog.
No, I don’t want to write about tall stuff only. This is what makes me different from other tall blogs – which I honestly like, admire and respect! No offense to anyone, and this is the best thing about blogging: there is space for us all on the World Wide Web. I am not even trying to compete with fashion giants (metaphorical giants, OK, not height wise!). There is no point in rediscovering the wheel, as tall fashion is a territory explored by many talented bloggers already.
So, I, maybe being delusional, think that I have found my niche. My blogging place under the sun. Which appears to also be what, apparently, confuses Google and its complicated algorithms. I am being inconsistent and not focused. I.e., not SEO friendly. Google won’t like me. Oh no! I will never be successful!
Still, strangely to me, I do get a fair amount of hits from search engines, Google in particular. So I can’t be doing it all wrong. And if I do… I know what I will say to that. F**k you, Mr Google. Yes, I would love to be a successful blogger, but I also want to be myself. I blog about what I like, and this is what makes me unique. Which, to me, is a good thing.
Maybe Google will agree with me one day. Or maybe not. In the meantime, I will keep writing. About what I fancy. Tall or not tall.
Happy first anniversary to me!

Reblogged this on Human Relationships and commented:
Blogger’s Dilemma: To Please Google, My Readers or Myself?
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Thanks very much for reblogging and following, much appreciated! Your blog is very very interesting, will visit soon to have a proper read.
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Thank you! Have a wonderful evening! 🙂
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And you!
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Well done, well said and happy blog-anniversary!
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Thank you! I am glad you can relate to my (not so happy) ranting. 🙂
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Absolutely. As long as you can still celebrate your blog…
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Sure!
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Your blog is great, Angie! Happy blogoversary! I originally started my blog on professional development but got tired of the single subject. If you can continue with content on all things tall, then keep writing about it!
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Thanks, Terri. I am doing what I can and what I like – which is all I can do, isn’t it.
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Happy BlogAnniversary 🙂
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Thanks very much!
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Well said. Keep blogging and writing about whatever you like. 🙂
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Thank you! Amen to that!
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Happy anniversary. I’m with you on the SEO business. I can obsess about on those key words, write boring but SEO-friendly posts, and leech the fun out of my blog, or I can mostly ignore the whole thing and find other ways (I hope) to get the word out there. The way I pose the choice does pretty much announce which way I’m leaning.
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Who cares! We should do what we feel is right for us!
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I agree on the SEO business also, do what you comes natural to you not what Dr. Google says you need to do, if you start blogging for towards a target it comes out as forced instead of what comes natural.
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Exactly! I read somewhere some time ago that it is important to write the contents that feels right for you, and who knows, followers may find you somehow. Can I be cheeky and ask what kind of a blog you have, self-hosted? There is no “follow” button there?
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Hah, somehow I managed to follow you through the notification panel. And thanks for following me. 🙂
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Great, yeah I started blogging while going through divorce and it’s turned into a passion and hobby now wrapped around my daughter and the never ending co-parenting fails I have to put up with in regards to my ex.
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As your probably know WordPress and theme design is quite frustrating some people see a follow button other don’t. Drives me nuts!
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This is only one of the things that drives me nuts. 😉 You are self-hosted, right? How does this compare to a “normal” blog, is it too difficult to manage?
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Yes I’m self hosted, it’s not difficult to manage just a lot of trial and error. Luckily my Dad Blogger FB group has a lot of bright fellows in there. I helped a friend out on a wordpress.com blog not to long ago and it’s very different from self hosting not near as many bells and whistles (obviously).
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Cool! I hope to go self-hosted one day, but need a good reason to (like someone wanting to advertise on my blog).
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Email me at skipahsrealm@gmail.com I will give you some tips I’ve learned in almost a year of this.
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I will do, very kind of you! Thank you. 🙂
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Congratulations Angie! And blog on. Do what pleases you, not Google!
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Thank you, will do!
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😉
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I agree with the others who suggested that you continue writing about whatever you want. I have three separate blogs, this one and two others that are focused on specific topics. That’s where I pay attention to SEO and keywords and whatnot.
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Oh! That’s interesting! How do you manage to keep them all?
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I haven’t been as active on the other two as I’ve been on my personal blog lately, but I spend a lot of my “free time” working on something. It keeps me relatively sane. (There are links to them on my About page if you’re interested. If not, that’s cool too. I just know if I post the links here it’ll look like I’m spamming.) 🙂
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No it won’t, don’t worry.
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I am on a mobile at the moment and have restricted view on your blog, cannot see the “About” page. What are the links?
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This is the main one and this is the sister site.
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Wow. Pretty serious stuff. Well done!
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Thank you for looking!
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Sure! I admire what you do, it takes dedication, time and research.
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